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6th Jun 2025

Optionality is Killing Your Momentum

In this episode Ray shares why having too many good options might secretly be sabotaging your success—and reveals the tough decisions he made to break free. If you're juggling multiple opportunities, this might be exactly what you need to hear.

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Welcome to Repeatable Revenue, hosted by strategic growth advisor , Ray J. Green.

About Ray:

→ Former Managing Director of National Small & Midsize Business at the U.S. Chamber of Commerce, where he doubled revenue per sale in fundraising, led the first increase in SMB membership, co-built a national Mid-Market sales channel, and more.

→ Former CEO operator for several investor groups where he led turnarounds of recently acquired small businesses.

→ Current founder of MSP Sales Partners, where we currently help IT companies scale sales: www.MSPSalesPartners.com

→ Current Sales & Sales Management Expert in Residence at the world’s largest IT business mastermind.

→ Current Managing Partner of Repeatable Revenue Ventures, where we scale B2B companies we have equity in: www.RayJGreen.com

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Transcript
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Few weeks ago in my email newsletter, I

wrote about the hardest word in business

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being no meaning, saying no to good

ideas, uh, that come at the expense of

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not having the energy or the time or the

focus to pursue the great ideas and how.

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Not developing the discipline or

the chops to say no to things and go

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all in on, on certain things ends up

screwing you in business because you

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feel like you're playing it safer.

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You know, you feel like you're, you're

hedging to a degree, um, but you're

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really not like, you're actually, you're,

you're keeping yourself from succeeding

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because you're not putting all of your

resources and all of the, the, the

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attention and the focus that you need

to make the one thing, the great thing.

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Actually work, right?

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So you're reducing the likelihood of

success by saying yes to too many things.

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And the reason I shared that was

because at that time I was going

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through that process exactly right.

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Because, uh, since launching my

new business, MSP Sales Partners

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in January, we've seen a, a

huge uptick in, in enrollments,

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especially these past few months.

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And of course we want new

enrollments, we want new customers.

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Like that's great.

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Like we're, we're growing.

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Awesome.

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The downside is it comes at a cost, right?

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Because everything in, in business,

everything in life comes, there's

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a trade off associated with it

and with growth in the business.

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For me, what it is meant

is trading off time, right?

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Because that's time is one of

the, the very few things in.

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In the world, that is

actually a zero sum game.

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You know, you can find ways to maximize

it, you can find ways to, to leverage it.

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But at the end of the day, I can't

manufacture more hours in the day.

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And so when something starts to

consume my entire calendar, my entire

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schedule, and I simply can't pack

anymore in, then I've gotta start

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looking at what I, what can I say no to?

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And, and that was, that was kinda the

background on that, on that newsletter.

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Like, that's what I've been going through.

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And, you know, the thing is, we've

actually, in the past couple of weeks,

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we've made some really tough decisions.

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Uh, you know, I've, it's done some,

some really like, honest analysis

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on what can I take off of my

calendar, like, what can I say no to?

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And you know, the shitty part is

all, all the easy stuff is gone.

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Like at this point, all the things

that make obvious sense, you go, okay,

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like kill that, kill that, kill that.

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I've already done all of those things, so

you know, we're, we're at a point where

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we're looking at the calendar and I'm.

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I don't wanna say no to any of them.

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I wanna do all of them.

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And I have up to now found ways

to like, keep them all going.

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Um, but it's reached that point

that it's, that it's not gonna work.

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So, you know, last, uh, last week, uh,

we actually made an announcement that

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we're shutting down the community, uh,

that we built community of entrepreneurs.

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And, um, like, frankly,

it was disappointing.

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You know, like I.

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I've spent time building that thing.

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I've enjoyed the relationships

that we've built in that thing.

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Uh, you know, the, the weekly call,

we would do like an office hours

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every Friday, and it was a call

that I looked forward to, you know,

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I, I got energy from that call.

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Uh, and it didn't feel like it

consumed a ton of time, right?

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So like, the, the time for

money trade off wasn't, wasn't

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necessarily a, a bad equation for me.

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Uh, but.

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Like I said, like there's just,

there's only so much time in the day.

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So if I want the MSP business

to really take off, I have

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to start saying no to things.

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Um, so that was one decision.

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Like we, we shut down

the, the, the community.

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Um, this week, in fact, uh, I

made the announcement to, I.

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All my coaching clients that we

were shutting down the accelerator

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coaching program, which was

also really disappointing.

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Like, this is something, I've been

running this for three years and it's gone

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through a handful of different iterations.

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Like it was, we started to scale

it at some point, then I peeled

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it back and, you know, said I,

I wanna focus more one-on-one.

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So at this point, like everyone

that I'm working with are people

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that I know, like I've, again, good

relationships with them, like they've

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been with me for a couple of years.

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And not something that I

wanted to necessarily turn off.

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But here's the thing, like while we,

like, I'm doing a lot of things really

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well, like pretty well, but none of

them like are actually getting done

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as well as they really could be.

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Like if I was being really honest

with, with this and truly objective

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and looking at this and saying,

Hey, if you, if you only did the

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coaching thing, could it be better?

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If you only focused on the community,

would it be better if you only

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focused on the MSP business?

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Would it be better And, you know,

good enough, maybe good enough.

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But the, the reality is I know

that we could be doing better.

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And when I really just like stepped

back to, to assess that, like the,

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the truth was pretty evident to me.

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Like it was time to, to go all in.

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So we made some of those decisions and

other things, uh, we've, we've turned

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off a, a few other things as well.

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And you know, the thing is like.

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It made sense logically, you know, like

sitting in a room with my advisors, you

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know, like, and kind of going through

this and looking at the numbers and

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looking at the calendar, you go, you

know what, this makes complete sense.

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Easy to make the decision, right?

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Like, Hey, I'm gonna cut a

few smaller revenue streams.

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I'm gonna get back, you know, 10, 15 hours

a week, and I'm gonna put all that time

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and that energy into, you know, growing

the business that's already growing.

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That's already starting

to take off really simple.

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Right, but implementing it was

a totally different ballgame.

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Easy to make the decision.

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Implementing it was tougher.

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And the thing like I, what I found

was there's like this emotional

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part of implementing decisions.

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When you're saying no, when you're

cutting, when you're turning off things

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that are good and making room for things

that are great, you get it in concept.

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You get it factually and logically.

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But when you start to, to put it into

place and execute it, there's a, like, a

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motion starts to kick in and, you know,

you start, I'm doing pretty good at sales,

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so I start like selling myself on this.

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You know, like, well, maybe, maybe we

could keep this one going just a little

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bit longer, like maybe till the end of the

year, uh, you know, may, well, what if the

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MSP business doesn't completely work out?

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Isn't it better to.

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You know, to, to have some like hedge

this and, you know, have three or four

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different, different streams, is it,

do I really need to do this thing?

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And, and this is the, this is the battle

that I think a lot of operators face.

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You know, like we, we have this tension

between the strategy and the logic,

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like the things that make complete

sense to us, and then this emotional

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homeostasis that keeps us where we're

at that wants to keep us where we're

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at and we know what needs to be done.

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Executing on those decisions.

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That's where the shake gets really

hard and it's, it kind of reminds me

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of when I, when I was my first CEO

role and I had a, a board of directors.

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Who group of smart guys, young,

smart guys, all had successful exits.

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Couple Harvard MBAs, a Booth, BA,

they had family offices, you know,

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sitting with some sharp dudes and there

was one, one in particular, Carlos,

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and he used to kinda always say,

well, you know, optionality is good.

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We want, we want more optionality.

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And that stuck with me for years

because first I was a really

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sharp dude, very successful.

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You know, I thought it was, I thought

it was good advice, made good sense.

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Like optionality is good.

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Like you, you get to

maintain some flexibility.

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You get to hedge your risk,

you get to diversify that

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risk, like all that good stuff.

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It's great for an investor, theoretically,

actually, like Warren Buffett would argue,

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and there's plenty of arguments to be

made for not diversifying in an investment

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portfolio, but that's for another day.

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But makes sense, right from an investment

standpoint, like hedge your bets and

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diversify the risk and you can ensure,

or more confidently, you know, kind of

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forecast what the results are gonna be.

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But as an operator.

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I optionality, I think is a curse.

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Like I've just come to the conclusion

that optionality is not what you want.

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Optionality is is not good as,

as an operator, as somebody who's

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executing things, as a founder, who's

trying to figure out which direction

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to go, because optionality makes

all of these options feel open to

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you, and that creates complexity.

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And complexity leads to.

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You know, rethinking decisions

and questioning yourself and,

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you know, having to double and

triple and quadruple check math.

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And, you know, I just, it

leads to hesitation, right?

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Because you're like, oh, well,

should I go this direction?

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Should I go this direction?

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Should I go this direction?

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Should I go this direction?

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And as an operator, you don't

have the flexibility of.

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Doing multiple things

really well simultaneously.

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Like it just doesn't work that way.

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So, you know, I made the decision with,

with my business or businesses that

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we're removing optionality, right?

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Like we're putting our

eggs into to one basket.

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We're going into MSP sales

partners, we're going all in.

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We're gonna build like a category defining

business for MSPs for IT businesses, and.

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I feel good about it, like,

but like I said, made sense.

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Logically implementing it was tough.

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But then after the decision also felt

good, like, felt like relief, felt

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like, you know what a sense of focus,

a sense of concentration, and I.

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That may feel risky, right?

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Because you're, you're,

you're all in on something.

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But like, feelings are

really misleading, right?

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Like they're, I think feelings

are a lot like a fun house mirror.

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You know?

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Like they, they distort your reality.

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They make like bold moves, things that

you've gotta do, things that actually

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have a higher likelihood of success.

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Feel dangerous and they make

status quo feel like it's safe.

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But if status quo was so good, then

why are you trying to change it?

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Right?

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It's obviously not so you're trying

to make changes to get different

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outcomes, but every time you go

to make significant changes, I.

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There's like a part of you that fights for

homeostasis and that makes you feel safe.

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And it doesn't because the, like, the

real risk is spreading yourself too thin.

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The real risk is trying to do everything.

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The real risk is trying to maintain all of

your options, thinking that by keeping all

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of your options open, that you're actually

increasing the likelihood of success.

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And it doesn't, it's a trap, right?

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And I, I had started to fall

into it, but I, I know better.

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Um, but it was, but even, like, even

when you know it, like I've, I've got all

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the books, you know, like the, the one

thing and essentialism and this and that.

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So conceptually, you know,

it, but like I said, executing

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is a totally different thing.

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So, you know, if you're, if you're

in a similar place, right, and

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you're, you know, like a crossroads

and you're kind of juggling too many

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things and unsure like where to let

go, here's what I'll leave you with.

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Um, like clarity.

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For me is not found in

spreadsheets and, and whiteboards.

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It's found in motion, right?

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It's found in movement.

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It's found in action.

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And sometimes like the boldest

business move that you can make is

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say no to good stuff so that you

can say yes to the great stuff.

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And if you're in a similar place, you

know, trying to figure out where to focus

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your time or feeling like you're spread

too thin, hopefully this resonates.

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If it does, feel free to subscribe.

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Rate the podcast, do whatever,

wherever you find this.

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Appreciate it.

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Repeatable Revenue
A podcast for MSPs and B2B business owners who want to scale sales.

Repeatable Revenue is hosted by Ray J. Green, an investor, entrepreneur, and strategic growth advisor to MSPs and B2B businesses. He's led national small business for the U.S. Chamber of Commerce, run turnarounds as a CEO for private equity groups, and advised 100s of MSPs and B2B businesses on how to build sales teams and scale sales from Cabo, where he now lives with his family.

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